Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Love.

Feelings.  How does one properly convey how they are feeling to someone with out A) hurting someone else's feelings B) creeping them the hell out C) ruining something that could have been great.  I always find myself holding back how I feel in certain situations because I am scared of how the other person is going to react.  It baffles me how something so huge gets thrown around so freely.  Sure, tell your family, friends and loved ones that you love them but don't throw the words around like they don't mean anything.  I see so many young kids who have been dating someone for 2 days telling each other they love one another but honestly, do they even know what the means?

I love my friends.  I love my parents, my brother and sister-in-law, and I LOVE my nephew Dane more than anyone on the planet.  I love a lot of inanimate object.  But I will never tell someone I love them without actually getting to know them.  Getting to see who they are.  Understanding them.  That's what matters.  You have to be ready for things like that.  There are so many pressures in this world that falling in love shouldn't be one of them.  It should be nature.  I personally believe that a healthy relationship shouldn't be boasted about all over social media.  Granted people have their own opinions about this and have expressed them to me, but this is how I feel.  Judge me.  Give me shit.  Come at me.  To each their own.  You have your opinion and so do I.  Leave me be with mine and I will leave you be with yours.

Laugh often.  Smile More.  Love Wholeheartedly.

Xoxo.